Expectations & Communication
Yesterday was Valentine's Day. Some people went all out and got all romantic, others did nothing. You may have had high expectations of your spouse doing something nice for you...and when they didn't you were let down. I remember the first Christmas my husband and I celebrated as a married couple 8 years ago. The weeks leading up to Christmas he would give me hints about what he bought me. He was so excited and knew I would love it! He said, "This gift fits your personality and you will want to wear it everyday.." I thought it was going to be a beautiful ring! Well, on Christmas morning he hands me a huge wrapped present ...hhhmmm. It felt soft. I knew it wasn't a ring. I opened it. A blue electric blanket. I cried. I know, I know, that was so rude of me. I should have smiled and been thankful that he got me a gift. (I'm still working on that part!) I said, "How does this fit my per...